Fear. We have all felt it, we have all dealt with it but not all of us are able to conquer it. Fear robs you of your joy, causes you to lose focus but more importantly it can cause you to question and second guess everything about yourself. Fearful moments arise in all of our lives at times. The key is to be able to immediately recognize fear when it shows up and fight it with all you’ve got!
I have lived in fear at different times in my life. Fear of making the transition from one area of my life to another, fear that my health would take a turn for the worst when my diabetes was not controlled as well or fear of what my life would look like after my divorce. But when I took power back over my life and got back in touch with who I am at my core the fear started to subside. I remembered who I was created by, and what I was created for…GREATNESS! You see fear lies. It tells you your not good enough, or your alone and not one cares about you. That is NEVER the case in any or our lives. if we really sit down and think about our life we are all really blessed. There is someone at this very moment thinking of you and praying you succeed in all your endeavors! You have a support system. But you have to use it. Fear wants you to feel everyone is out to get you and that is simply not true.
So if you are feeling fearful at this moment about anything in your life I want to encourage you to take a step back, pray, think about what it is you want your desired outcome to be and make a plan to make it happen. Fear will win if you don’t pray, plan, and press forward!
You’ve got this and I know you can do it!!
Welcome to my first blog!! Can you tell I am excited that you are here??!! I so appreciate you taking the time to visit. I’m looking forward to sharing pieces of my journey with you. To start letʼs establish that I am now single but I am also satisfied!
Yes, I am single. Yes, I am a single Mother, but I am also whole and happy. Itʼs possible to be single and satisfied. I get asked all the time how do I do it? How do I keep it all together without being in relationship? I am always in awe whenever I am asked this question. Arenʼt we as a society past feeling as if women need a man to be whole?
What bothers me most is this question usually comes from a negative mindset. The negative implications could be your single because you can’t find a man because no man wants you, or even the extreme opinion that something must be wrong with you. But what if.. just what if youʼre single simply because you have chosen to be. Other positive reasons that a woman may be single may include but are not limited to; Youʼre focused on raising your children if your a mother, youʼre career driven, or youʼre taking time to simply enjoy life alone. Its perfectly normal and ok to be Single and Satisfied.
For me itʼs a combination of things. I am a whole, complete single woman. I have chosen to take the time to be the best mother I can be to my 2 amazing children and to pursue my purpose. Donʼt get me wrong Iʼm not knocking being in a relationship. But I also donʼt think its a good idea to be in an unhealthy relationship. So if you too are single don’t allow anyone to pressure you into anything. Take your time and allow your Mr. Right to come into your life organically. And when he shows up he will appreciate you being the whole complete, secure woman that you are!